So you come to yoga class - that’s great!
But I have a question to ask you!
Do you do any practice at home?
If you’re brand new to yoga, and still finding your feet (sometimes literally!), it can feel daunting to try some of the movements on your own. You might worry you’re not doing it “right,” get confused about how you “should” be breathing, or want to put together something specific to help you with a health issue you have - but you’re not sure which poses would be best for you.
I’m a huge believer in developing a home practice. This month’s blog is all about helping you to think about how you can make that happen, and the benefits if you did!
There’s probably all sorts of reasons why we may not practice at home but finding the motivation and telling ourselves we don’t have enough time, or don’t feel confident enough are usually pretty high up on the list of excuses we give ourselves!
How to design your own home routine
Here’s a few tips to help you design a home yoga practice:
Taking even a little bit of time to practice grounds and inspires you, so that, when you return to your “to-do” list you are more focused and productive. I’ve come to realise when I practice, even for just a few minutes at the start of my day - somehow, the rest of my day seems just a little bit better - whatever life throws at me!
I hope you do too. Your mat awaits!
How seriously do you take your yoga?
I had reason to reflect on my own approach this week as I sat down to write my monthly newsletter for my students. Truthfully - I struggled this month! Yogini writer's block I guess they'd call it!
Sometimes it just flows: I see, hear or read something and I get an idea, and that's me - off the starting block! Other times I stare at the blank space on the computer and wait for inspiration........sometimes a long, frustrating wait!
I tell myself I'll "work out a better system", so there's always a bank of ideas just waiting for me to use. (Still working on that one!) I search through all my mass of books/teaching notes/yoga magazines looking for inspiration, and nothing jumps out at me. I search frantically as the deadline approaches for something "meaningful" and serious to share with my students......
And then I catch myself and realise….
And that's when I found myself laughing at myself!
I took a break - and googled "funny yoga quotes."
I had a giggle.
And I suddenly realised two things:
I read an article the other day which said many of us simply transfer our existing tightly wound up habits into the yoga class or our time on the mat so we have little chance of relaxing at all!
3 or more? Guilty as charged?! Sheesh! How wound up can you get?!
Seriously…(for a moment at least!):
STOP IT!!! RIGHT NOW!
Give yourself a high five for showing up, don't take it too seriously, and enjoy the journey!!
Are you taking any medication? Do you associate getting older with expecting to slow down, become more tired, experience more health problems and taking more medication?
When you visit the doctor do you always expect to walk out with a drug prescription?
Having faced some recent challenges with quite severe pain in my feet I
can vouch for the fact that, despite my reluctance to take anything unless I have to, when I did go to the doctor, I was in no doubt I needed something to help me cope with the pain. (which, by the way it transpired was the result of nerve pain emanating from my spine; probably from a couple of injuries some months ago, and not a ligament or tendon injury as first suspected.)
I was struggling to cope even with walking my old lab; and as anyone who has suffered from chronic pain for any length of time will tell you, you are left feeling drained and low.
In such situations, taking medication, even if you hate taking anything, is a sensible and helpful thing to do. When our bodies are in pain, stopping us from normal movement, we need something to allow us to continue to live our lives.
Resting for too long is - as all doctors now agree, a recipe for seizing up further and making the problem ten times worse.
But when we continue to take the painkillers longer term; that can become a problem. Almost all doctors now agree that pain killers only work for a short while - then as time goes on, their effectiveness wears off - and we require more and more, to have the same effect - all the while, risking and experiencing sometimes debilitating side -effects; even having to take other drugs to mitigate those side-effects....till we are rattling from the number of pills we need to take.
Last month Dr Chris Van Tullekan led a documentary called "The Doctor who Gave up Drugs." You may have seen it. If you haven't - the links are below - I highly recommend watching this fascinating programme.
One thing the programme highlighted was that the amount of drugs we use goes up in middle age.
Now, at NO point, did this documentary deny that drugs have their place in helping to support our well-being; in some cases they are an absolute necessity and they save countless lives.
But ALL drugs can do harm - with side-effects in some cases which can prove as challenging and unpleasant as the problem we want treating.
Overworked doctors, with only 10 minutes per patient, describe it as feeling as though they have nothing else to offer us, other than to write a prescription and hope it works.
And we feel short-changed if we walk out of the surgery without a prescription!
In "The Doctor who Gave up Drugs", it cited an interesting report which was published last year (2015 by the Academy of Medical Royal Colleges entitled "Exercise - the miracle cure." (Here's a link, if, like me, you'd like to learn more:
Exercise - the miracle cure
However, to save you some time here's a paragraph from that report which summarises quite nicely, the findings of studying lots of trials/case studies and research:
In the BBC programme, individuals with diabetes, chronic pain, high blood pressure; depression or at risk of stroke were enrolled in some form of exercise programme, including Kung Fu; walking for 30 minutes 5 times a week and cold water swimming. whilst initially their motiv ation was weak, eventually, with the support of a group, they began to keep up their regime - and the results were dramatic.
Their mood test scores improved. They slept better at night. They enjoyed life more.
Dr. Van Tullekan said: "They felt like they were in charge of their own health and their own bodies. you can't put THAT in a pill."
Want to see the programmes?
Here's the link to programme 1: The Doctor who gave up drugs - episode 1
And programme 2: The Doctor who Gave up Drugs - episode 2
My own problem with the pain in my feet? My phsyiotherapist said to take the pain killers whilst the pain was severe, and see it as a course of treatment - much like taking a course of antibiotics - but meanwhile, to use physiotherapy and whatever I did, NOT to stop my yoga!
My feet are slowly coming back to being pain free and I have now come off the pain killers. They have helped as a temporary measure - I will let physio and yoga do the rest.
Which asana is your biggest challenge?
Maybe it's a Warrior sequence? Maybe it's lunges? Maybe your hips groan when you try pigeon? Maybe you struggle with plank or balances?
As a teacher it is, of course, important to work on the more physical asanas; I like to try and walk the talk! And it's a good feeling as you find your body becomes more toned, flexible and you finally master a pose you found impossible initially.
All good.
But do you find yourself getting slightly fidgety when you lie still in Savasana or Legs up the Wall?
When you move into Child's Pose do you see it as simply a transition pose and you're itching to move on to the next asana?
When you try to sit quietly and focus on your breath do you find your brain screaming, "Why are you wasting time? Don't you realise how much you've still got to do today?"
What our bodies and minds actually need is space. Time to allow muscles which are clenched with tension to soften.
Time to allow minds which are racing at a hundred miles an hour (yet still not achieving as much as we think we should!) to just press the "pause" button, and slow down.
Time to breathe - to just simply "be."
And that's what Savasana (or some of the other restorative poses) have the power to do.
And don't be mistaken for thinking a good night's sleep will do you as much good. Sleep won't help you "let go", and often sleep patterns when we're facing challenges are anything BUT restful.
Savasana is a conscious releasing and letting go. We remain in a state of gentle awareness: of our thoughts and of our physical state, whilst calmly and consciously allowing those thoughts and muscles to "let go".
OMG!!! I'm 64 next week!
Last year at this time I published a blog post which I'm re-hashing this year - because it's still relevant - and some students won't have read it. So here it is:
Don't know how you feel about birthdays - particularly the "big" ones marking the end of a decade. Some people get nervy reaching 30 never mind 40 or more. And I was somewhat disturbed the last time I visited my hairdresser to find she and another girl working there were having botox done - one of them not even 30 yet - and quite frankly - stunning looking without any "help!"
What's that all about?!
I'm not about to have Botox any time soon that's for sure, but I have to admit that hitting 60 bothered me.
Where had the time gone? When I was in my 20's, 60 was ancient!
And it wasn't the 60 so much that bothered me either! Know what it was?
It was the countdown to 70 - which scares the hell out of me!
I find each birthday since 60 my inner gremlin is saying - "Only 10 years to 70! Only 9 years to 70! only 8 years to 70!
And now, next week, I'm only 6 years to 70!
How scary is that?!!
My 70 plus yoga students will tell me it's not so bad. They look fab; and their quiet determination to do what they can to stay as fit as they can for as long as they can is inspiring, even if they are already feeling the effects of age through inflexibility or other conditions. They come to yoga because they want to increase their sense of well-being - and hold back the years - just like my hairdressers do - but through something far more powerful than botox.
And that's why I'm grateful to yoga.
I have long-standing friends, some of them younger than me, who are struggling with their health.
I feel blessed. I'm more supple than my kids. My core strength is pretty damn good for someone my age, though I say it myself - and I'm working on strengthening it even more. My energy levels are good, and my enthusiasm for life's challenges and experiences remain strong.
I have some twinges of arthritis in my right hand (probably RSI from typing too many blogs and training courses!!). And yes - there are some saggy bits around the neck (and other places I'd rather not divulge!!) and some wrinkles I sometimes feel bad about - but on the whole, I'm not doing too badly.
I say this not to brag. Because I don't think it's anything to do with genes.
I believe it's EVERYTHING to do with yoga.
And for those of you thinking to yourself - "oh well it's OK for her - but she teaches it/has more discipline/more time/" etc - actually, while I did teach for 5 years in my twenties - between 30 and 60 I didn't teach because life was just far too hectic with children, career and all that. And even my personal practice - whilst I never gave up entirely - was often spasmodic.
But I did keep returning to it - and I did build a routine which - whilst it was only 15-20 minutes long, I managed to do regularly. Truth is, in the end, it was no longer discipline - I began to notice how when I didn't do it I didn't feel so good - so I wanted to do it - and then that became as much a habit as cleaning my teeth before bedtime.
I know I can't do anything about my birthday next week! Whether I celebrate it or not (and I AM going to celebrate!), it will happen anyhow. I WILL be 6 years from 70 in exactly one week - whether I like it or not!
I can't change that!
But what I CAN do something about is HOW I get to 70!
Here's what yoga does for me:
I found myself wanting to eat more healthily - taking more interest in how to eat a balanced and interesting diet. I stopped weighing myself - and focused on looking for foods which would keep my energy high, and leave me feeling good rather than bloated or sluggish. I've been vegetarian for 14 years now - and following my time in India for my advanced teacher training, have decided to move gradually to vegan.
It's not about being obsessive - it's just about caring about what I put into my body - (and maybe a new-found respect and thought about where our food comes from.)
It's no different for me. Over the last year I've seen my Mum degenerate severely as dementia takes over. As I write this it's unlikely she will see out the end of the month.
I can't tell you how many times I've left her and fallen apart. There are times when it all feels too much.
And I know many of my students face, or have faced similar daunting challenges. We need a reserve - a bank of inner strength and resilience, which will help us through those periods with a little more grace and ease.
Yoga always helps in those challenging times - even when you don't realise it!
Sometimes you look back and you don't realise yoga is actually helping you cope, until you realise how you've managed to stay a little calmer than usual in a crisis; or when you've had a setback, you've bounced back a little more quickly than you used to; or when you find yourself appreciating little things somehow a lot more than normal.
Yoga's mental and emotional effects are often subtle - but quite profound. As you build resilience in your body, you build resilience in your mind - with massive personal benefits.
(And hopefully staying calmer, more grateful and less likely to frown will stave off those wrinkles a bit more too!)
Quite an impressive list eh?! Can botox do that?!! I think not!!
I may be 6 years off 70 next week - but I think I'll continue to pass on the botox and stick with the yoga!
I hope you do too.
Well - most people won't think yoga could do much to help them lose weight - unless, of course, you're into the more vigorous styles such as Ashtanga or hot yoga; and even then, the assumption would be you'd probably have more success jogging or training in the gym if you really want to buff up and trim down.
It is true that a 150 pound individual will burn roughly 150 calories an hour doing yoga compared to 311 calories for an hour of walking at 3mph.
However, there can be some surpising benefits in the body shape department if you give yoga a go!
Done mindfully, yoga forges a strong mind-body connection, which can help you become more aware of how you eat, what you eat, and when you are full.
More importantly, yoga can make you more susceptible to influence for change - so if you are thinking you want to change your lifestyle; or you want to change the way you think about food; or you want to get over destructive eating patterns you might have developed; yoga will give you the connection to your body which will help you want to make those changes.
In my experience, yoga helped me develop a far greater respect for, and awareness of, this amazing "machine" which supports our very essence; our personality.
Those of you who have known me a while know my yoga training in India last February included all of us following a sattvic diet; which is basically vegan without onions, garlic, mushrooms and red chillies.
It also espoused dry fasting (no liquid or food) for 24 hours twice a month, which, in over 30 degree heat I chose to refuse to follow.
In truth, I wasn’t too sure about the “science” explanations we were being given about why we should avoid these foods. My instinct to question so called “facts” means I can be seen as somewhat sceptical! I prefer to check things out first.
However, I couldn’t refute the fact I did feel better, lost weight, and felt more “vital”, even though I was already a reasonably healthy vegetarian prior to the training.
What was even more interesting for me was what happened when I went back to eating exactly as I used to. I've been feeling a little more sluggish, sometimes a little bloated, and whilst I don't feel I've regained any of the weight I'd lost, I feel heavier somehow!!
It's not that easy! Having spent time researching, and reading, I'm finding the debates about which diet will help us stay fitter for longer continue to be a contradictory, often confusing sets of claims, all too often with a hidden agenda of trying to sell us a particular pill, food or diet! There are some interesting social studies, observing communities across the world where they seem to live longer and healthier lives - but in truth, there will almost certainly be other factors contributing to their wonderful longevity too - so its difficult to extrapolate it to one thing.
So - finding credible research, done with at least some clear objectivity and scientific rigour is not easy!
However, I did find one piece of research (done by Katz and Mellor from Yale University) I particularly liked. It's recent for one thing - done in 2014; it is clearly non-biased; and it reviews dozens of other trials in order to come to its conclusions.
Here’s my overviewof their findings:
So - I'm trialling one day a week as a vegan only day!
I'm reviewing my shopping and cooking habits to see if I could move a little nearer to the vegan/sattvic way of eating - and indeed to see if it actually makes me feel any better!
I'll keep you posted!
Meanwhile, when was the last time you reviewed your eating habits? eliminating meat and dairy may not be for you; but what small changes might you make to achieve better health and vitality and support yourphysical yoga practice?
Well....not fully! But every journey begins with a single step!!
ALIGNED AND EMPOWERED THROUGH YOGA
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Day 3: Saturday 23rd September: 10 - 4.30pm. Embracing the flow: Cultivating mindfulness and emotional alignment through yoga.
This is the last in this series of retreat days looking at different aspects of alignment, and focuses far more on what I call the "quiet" side of yoga; the "introspective", mindful aspect of yoga; the wonderful ability yoga has, through a range of techniques, to help us strengthen our emotional and mental well-being..
For me, this is one of the most interesting days in the series, because it focuses not just on the physical, but on really grasping the inextricable link between how we feel physically, and how we feel emotionally. So what will we explore today?
1) Let's begin by understanding how mental and emotional factors play a significant role in overall alighnment and well-being. We'll look at 6 specific ways mental and emotional factors contribue to our alignment and well-being.
3) How can yoga movement, mindfulness and other yoga techniques help us create a greater sense of alignment and overall well-being?
4) I'll share some of my learning from the teachings of Sam Harris, Joseph Goldstein and other philosphers and neuroscientists, which help us to understand a little more about the benefits of mindfulness and meditation techniques, and how we can integrate this into our lives.
COST FOR THIS DAY: £65, including a nutritious veggie/vegan lunch; refreshments and all handouts.
Interested in attending this day? Space can be reserved at the link below, but is not secured until payment. Places first come first served basis.
Either:
a) Choose the cash option and pay at class or
b) You can pay using this link, and the secure GoCardless payment processor. OR
c) Pay via BACS (Email me for details)
(Discount given if attending 2 or more days. See below for details of how to apply.)
Worried a full day of yoga is going to be too much?
Don't worry! Its not just practising poses! And it's not just for experienced yogis! Whatever your level or experience, you will come away with a deeper knowledge of how to use the tools and techniques of yoga to support your well-being journey.
We go deeper into topics; there's a mix of learning, discussion and time for questions and sharing experiences. there are handouts with some of the key messages I think it's useful to remember.
There's time for deep relaxation, mindfulness, self-reflection and, hopefully thinking about what small changes you might make to your own daily habits to improve and/or maintain your alignment and balance for as long as possible.
Most of all, it's a day where you can take time out for you, unwind and hopefully have fun!
Will we be doing physical exercise all day? I don't think I can cope!
No! The morning sessions are a little more energetic, with routines which will stretch you whatever your level, but the afternoons are a calmer affair (you need to allow lunch to settle after all!); with a focus on mindfulness/meditation, restorative yoga and deep relaxation in the form of Yoga Nidra.
Do I have to be over 45?!
No! But if you're looking for a day of power/Ashtanga yoga - then this is probably not for you!
I have back pain and am worried a full day might be too much for me.
I get asked so many times by students who have specific health issues if yoga will help, or hinder their healing. There ARE some techniques and postures which are contra-indicated for certain conditions, and we'll let you know if that's the case.
However, as mentioned above, this is not a full day of vigorous movement. You will learn how you can adapt poses so you can do them safely; or where it's best you don't do a specific pose, you'll learn alternatives, or how to use that space to allow your body to relax.
And if you do have specific concerns or health issues, mention to your GP what you are thinking of doing - and see what he/she says. In most cases, yoga (and pilats) is one of the few things doctors will recommend you do take up.
The truth is - NOTHING is worse than not moving at all. You're guaranteed to seize up.
Anyone who knows me knows I am passionate about staying healthy for as long as we are able. Yoga teaches us how to take care of our bodies, our minds and our spirits. I cannot think of anything more important, if we are to fully live our lives without being hindered by ill health.
And if you have any further questions - please do just get in touch.
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“I have to say that I am delighted with the Friday yoga class - I've done 4 now and I can already feel the benefit.”
“I have back problems, so I joined the classes because I needed to strengthen my core and back. Yoga has helped me both physically and mentally.”
These are just a couple of the comments I’ve received from students over the last year of teaching yoga.
I’ve been teaching now for over a year - and it’s wonderful to see students progress. Some of my students have been with me for that whole time - and some only for a few weeks - but it’s just so wonderful to not only see them improving in terms of what they can accomplish physically, but to have them feedback how they feel they’re benefiting from the practice.
Whilst there’s still a lot of work to be done, there’s a growing body of research showing how yoga practice can bring positive health results across a range of areas - particularly in terms of helping us as we age .
So what exactly IS therapeutic yoga?
Therapeutic yoga is defined as the application of yoga postures and practice
to the treatment of health conditions.
One study in 2011, reviewed all the literature they could find relating to “hatha yoga,” “therapeutic effects of yoga,” “stress,” “anxiety, “depression,” “pain,” and “chronic disease,” in order to provide a comprehensive review of the benefits of regular yoga practice.
Whilst many of the studies are small, and larger, more rigorous trials are needed, the results showed that overall, yoga practices:
How might yoga be helping these conditions?
There are four basic principles which underlie the teachings and practices of yoga:
There is still much to learn - but one thing’s for sure: regular yoga practice seems to come with the potential to help manage and prevent many of the age-related conditions so prevalent in many cultures today.
You have nothing to lose - and a lot to gain, by spending some time on the mat!
In the last post I talked about how achieving our New Year resolutions, or indeed, any goal we set ourselves, requires changing our behaviour in some way.
We are creatures of habit! But what is a habit exactly?
A habit is something we do automatically - without really thinking about it. We're on "autopilot" if you like. It's actually a very useful function of our brains, allowing us to talk and drive at the same time for example; or type on our lap tops without thinking about where we have to put our fingers. Some habits are helpful - like cleaning our teeth; some unhelpful, like smoking.
But the one thing you've had to do in order for these things to become habits - is repeat something regularly enough, for it to become an established wiring in your brain - so that instead of having to consciously make an effort to take that action - your subconsious does it for you without you having to think much at all.
Once your brain is "hard-wired" to do something automatically, it's harder to stop it!
That's great if it's a helpful habit! Not so good if it's not!
One theory is that some habits are more powerful than others. Researchers call these "keystone habits" which have the power to start a chain reaction, impacting on more than one area of our lives just by doing that one thing.
Keystone habits have the power to influence how we work, eat, play, live, spend and communicate.
They start a chain reaction which will eventually transform your whole life.
And as with any habit - you may have set up positive/helpful keystone habits, or negative/unhelpful ones!
Do you know what YOUR "keystone habits" are?
What, if any, helpful keystone habits have you got? How do they impact on your life? I bet they influence it for the better in a number of ways.
But what about your unhelpful keystone habits? What are they?
Maybe you have a habit of slumping in front of the TV when you get in from work? Maybe you're always hitting the "snooze" button on the alarm? Maybe the first thing you do when you get up or start work is check your e-mails? Maybe you spend a lot of time on social media? Maybe you keep saying "Yes" to people, when you really should be saying "No!"
And maybe you don't exercise consistently?
Yoga is, I believe, a keystone habit. It can transform not only your physical health but your mental and emotional health, your stress levels and your resilience in the face of life's inevitable challenges.
5 tips to help you set up your yoga keystone habit:
Do this for 4-8 weeks and I promise you will find yourself WANTING to hit the mat because it makes you feel so good!
And when you do, you know your keystone habit will have formed. Just watch out! The side effects are many - and hugely positive!!
Have you made any new year resolutions this year?
Some research shows around 40% of us make New Year resolutions, but only 8% of is actually succeed in achieving them. Most of us have given up before the end of January - and only a tiny minority will actually make lasting changes which transform our lives for the better.
Psychologists suggest a number of reasons for this, including we create too many resolutions; we make the goals so big we almost feel doomed before we even start or we’re not specific enough about what we’re after (“To get fit,” for example, is NOT a good goal: it’s too vague and there’s no way of measuring it.)
If you've ever set yourself a New Year resolution and given up before the end of January you're not alone!
Whatever the goals you set yourself one thing's for sure: it requires changing the way you do things so you get different results.It requires changing "unhelpful" habits; whether that's eating the wrong things; not exercising enough; procrastinating; watching too much TV.....the list goes on!
Achieving new goals requires changing our habitual behaviour for something which will result in the outcome we want. It's ALL about habits.
So, if you want to lose weight - you'll need some new eating and exercise habits. If you want to change your job, you'll need to get out of that rut and make some changes - to your skill set and your job hunting approach. If you want to get more productive stuff done, you might need to watch less television.
And when it comes to habits, there's a school of thought amongst some psychologists that there are some habits which are more important than others! Habits which, whilst seemingly small and even insignificant, over time produce results far outweighing the effort you made to establish that habit.
Charles Duhigg, in his book "The power of habit", encourages us to focus on changing habits which could make the biggest difference to your life; habits which literally spill over into other areas of your life, improving them too.
How cool is that?!
These habits are what Duhigg calls "KEYSTONE HABITS".
The idea is to focus on just one of these "keystone habits" for a period of 3 to 6 weeks (researchers differ about how long they think it takes to make a new behaviour a habit - but often the theory suggests consistently doing something for between 21 and 60 days will help you ingrain that behaviour until it becomes automatic - and THAT'S when the magic happens! Because then, it doesn't require discipline any more, it's just the way you are.
So literally, you can wake up one morning and realise you have changed your whole life -
simply by changing one habit!
I've found this phenomenon has worked for me with yoga.
There are few days when I don't practise - some days it's only a few minutes breathing; abdominal lifts and a couple of sun salutations taking 5 minutes - others it's well over an hour. On average it's around 30 to 40 minutes a day.
That's NOT discipline. Not any more. It's simply a habit - but one which helps me:
There's probably more I can trace back to this simple habit - but that's not a bad list is it? All this for a few minutes yoga practice on a regular basis.
So at the start of this new year, try making a commitment to practise yoga at least twice a week for 15 minutes and keep this up for 30 days - 60 if you're really serious about making a tangible difference to how you feel.
You've nothing to lose - and masses to gain. Coming to a class once a week will help - but the real benefits will come when you incorporate yoga into a regular, personal routine.
In the next blog post I'll give you some suggestions about how to make this an easier process for you.
And for those of you who are members, if you can't remember the poses, they're all in the online library you have access to with your membership - so you've no excuse!
I wish all of you, my students and my readers a happy and healthy and New Year.
Over the last couple of weeks in my teaching I've heard students say things like:
"I'm no good at this pose."
"I'm useless."
"I'll never do that."
"I feel like I'm failing".......and other similar phrases.
I've also seen students who are clearly pushing a little too hard to try to get to what they think is a "better" pose. (And this despite their knowing my mantra which they hear me say a lot, believe me! - that I'd rather see someone not following my guidance, and moving out of a pose, modifying it, moving back into a resting pose or doing something completely different - if their body tells them that is better for them right now.)
It's not the first time - it won't be the last - but it's happened enough in the last 2 weeks for me to feel it's worth a blog post!
And with the newbies starting my beginner programmes this week I'm giving them a copy of this article to take away so they can't say I didn't mention it!
In fact - I'm not an advocate of ANYTHING to extremes!
It's interesting I read an article today by a yoga teacher - talking about detoxing for example.
Have you ever done it?
I have!
Yet the research and main body of respected clinicians will tell you the whole concept of detoxing is created by the marketers - who want you to buy their products! Your body - it turns out - is actually amazingly brilliant at eliminating toxins for itself - (thank your liver for that!)
And what about extreme dieting?
Ever tried that?
Yes! I have too! Apart from making me miserable - it didn't work! I don't know anyone it has worked for! And I don't know any good doctor who would advocate it either!
There's a lot to be said I reckon from the old saying: "Everything in moderation!"
And that's what bothers me.
When we're young - we might just be able to get away with it. But often, these things have a habit of catching up with us and biting us on the bum.
And I don't know about you - but whilst I can't hold back the clock - I want to grow old and still be as fit and well as I can be.
Here's my take on this whole thing.
Enough said?!!
So no more talk of failing please!!
So you now understand some of the main underlying causes of neck and shoulder pain (See blog post: )
And you know which yoga poses help you relieve the symptoms. (See blog post: )
Now it's time to ensure it doesn't come back!
3 ways to banish neck and shoulder pain permanently:
Neck and shoulder pain can be extremely debilitating - but with these simple tips and just a few mindful yoga postures you don't need to suffer.
Neck and shoulder pain is a common complaint amongst my students, who ask which postures are best for relieving the sometimes chronic pain or tension they are feeling in that area of their spine.
In this 3 part series of posts I'll look at what causes neck and shoulder pain - some simple exercises to focus on to help reduce existing problems and finally some simple things you can do to help ensure you prevent it from coming back!
So - first: What causes neck and shoulder pain?
Unless it's the result of an accident or underlying medical condition, aches and pains around the neck and shoulders are most often the result of persistent poor posture.
In today's world of sitting at desks, working on computers or with our heads permanently bowed looking at our mobile devices, or slumped on the sofa watching TV, is it any wonder our necks and shoulders begin to feel the pressure?
When you sit slumped, hands out in front to type or hold a device, your neck is often jutting forward so your neck and shoulder muscles have to work harder to keep your head erect. Do this for hours on end without really moving, and it's no wonder your upper spine is screaming by the end of the day!
Take a look at the diagram below. Recognise yourself?
When you slump, your shoulder blades widen, moving away from the spine which over time, chronically weakens and overstretches your muscles. If you keep repeating this poor posture (and many of us do it daily!), then those muscles toughen, and become more fibrous to try and protect you from this repeated strain you're placing on your upper spine. Sometimes they go into spasm, leaving you with screaming pains around your shoulder blades and your neck.
Practical tip 1:
Starting today, get a small notebook and just note down/keep a log of how many minutes you sit or stand in that slumped position.
Simply beginning to become more aware of what you're doing will make you automatically take some preventive/corrective measures and that's OK! But just become more aware of where the danger areas are for you.
And watch out for part 2 of this series of posts, for some simple yoga postures to help you relieve and prevent neck and shoulder pain in the future.
OMG!!! I'm 63 next week!
There. I've said it! Out loud - and to whoever reads this!
Don't know how you feel about birthdays - particularly the "big" ones marking the end of a decade. Some people get nervy reaching 30 never mind 40 or more. And I was somewhat disturbed the last time I visited my hairdresser to find she and another girl working there were having botox done - one of them not even 30 yet - and quite frankly - stunning looking without any "help!"
What's that all about?!
I'm not about to have Botox any time soon that's for sure, but I have to admit that hitting 60 bothered me.
Where had the time gone? When I was in my 20's, 60 was ancient!
And it wasn't the 60 so much that bothered me either! Know what it was?
It was the countdown to 70 - which scares the hell out of me!
I find each birthday since 60 my inner gremlin is saying - "Only 10 years to 70! Only 9 years to 70! only 8 years to 70!
And now, next week, I'm only 7 years to 70!
How scary is that?!!
My 70 plus yoga students will tell me it's not so bad. They look fab; and their quiet determination to do what they can to stay as fit as they can for as long as they can is inspiring, even if they are already feeling the effects of age through inflexibility or other conditions. They come to yoga because they want to increase their sense of well-being - and hold back the years - just like my hairdressers do - but through something far more powerful than botox.
And that's why I'm grateful to yoga.
I have long-standing friends, some of them younger than me, who are struggling with their health.
I feel blessed. I'm more supple than my kids. My core strength is pretty damn good for someone my age, though I say it myself - and I'm working on strengthening it even more. My energy levels are good, and my enthusiasm for life's challenges and experiences remain strong.
I have some twinges of arthritis in my right hand (probably RSI from typing too many blogs and training courses!!). And yes - there are some saggy bits around the neck (and other places I'd rather not divulge!!) and some wrinkles I sometimes feel bad about - but on the whole, I'm not doing too badly.
I say this not to brag. Because I don't think it's anything to do with genes.
I believe it's EVERYTHING to do with yoga.
And for those of you thinking to yourself - "oh well it's OK for her - but she teaches it/has more discipline/more time/" etc - actually, while I did teach for 5 years in my twenties - between 30 and 60 I didn't teach because life was just far too hectic with children, career and all that. And even my personal practice - whilst I never gave up entirely - was often spasmodic.
But I did keep returning to it - and I did build a routine which - whilst it was only 15-20 minutes long, I managed to do regularly. Truth is, in the end, it was no longer discipline - I began to notice how when I didn't do it I didn't feel so good - so I wanted to do it - and then that became as much a habit as cleaning my teeth before bedtime.
I know I can't do anything about my birthday next week! Whether I celebrate it or not (and I AM going to celebrate!), it will happen anyhow. I WILL be 7 years from 70 in exactly one week - whether I like it or not!
I can't change that!
But what I CAN do something about is HOW I get to 70!
Here's what yoga does for me:
Quite an impressive list eh?! Can botox do that?!! I think not!!
I may be 7 years off 70 next week - but I think I'll continue to pass on the botox and stick with the yoga!
Want to join me?!
One of the most common things I notice in my yoga students who are experiencing pain when they move, is that there is a tendency to keep still, and move less, in order to avoid the pain. There is also a natural fear that a particular move is going to make them wince, so they sometimes avoid movement altogether and resort to taking painkillers such as paracetamol.
A recent study, carried out by researchers from the University of Sydney, looked at the benefit of taking painkillers such as paracetamol for people with arthritis, and concluded paracetamol may not be effective for some people with lower back pain and of limited help to people with osteoarthritis of the hip and knee.
As with all research - there are caveats and exceptions. If you currently take paracetamol and find it helps reduce the pain then clearly continuing to take it would seem a wise thing to do.
But the one thing which DOES have universal backing from ALL quarters of the medical profession for helping improve the quality of life for anyone with arthritis - is exercise.
3 benefits to practising yoga exercises on a regular basis:
So - what are you waiting for?
There is NO doubt that living with pain and an inability to move can prove to be one of the most depressing and debilitating experiences for any of us.
Making a 10 minute yoga practise a part of your daily routine could have a massive positive impact on the quality of your life. Make that commitment to yourself today!
Habits are funny creatures!
We all have them - and we tend to see them as either "good" or "bad". Some of them have become so ingrained we hardly notice we're doing them - psychologists call this working on "autopilot."
Actually, "autopilot" can be really useful for us. It means we can drive the car and chat to someone in the passenger seat. I can't go to bed, no matter how late, tired or how much alcohol I've drunk, without brushing my teeth! That's not discipline - it's habit. Because habits are simply behaviours you've repeated so many times, it's become part of your "routine."
As a coach and psychology student as well as a yoga teacher, I prefer not to use words like "good" or bad". Judgemental language may make things worse if we're trying to build habits which serve us well. If we say we have a "bad" habit, it often makes us feel bad - and that has a nasty "habit" of leading us to beating ourselves up for "failing" to control ourselves. Vicious circle!
I prefer to look at habits as either "helpful" or "unhelpful". Less emotive. Less judgemental.
The truth is, habitual patterns of behaviour eventually become "automatic". The more you do something, the more it's likely to become "hard-wired" in your brain to do it "without really thinking."
So you reach for that cigarette or chocolate bar when you're stressed. Autopilot.
The first thing you do at your desk when you start work is check your e-mails. (Despite the fact you know you tend to get sucked into them and an hour later that thing you really needed to do is still not done!) Autopilot.
Unhelpful patterns of behaviour which have become habitual for you.
Useful tips about habits:
My students sometimes say to me I must be disciplined to practise yoga so regularly - but actually - I'm not. Not any more. It's just I've done it for so long now - and it makes me feel SO good, it just part of my routine.
It's great you come to yoga class - and that time in shared learning and focus is a great experience. But ten minutes a day will help you build that yoga habit far more effectively than an hour a week.
So what are you waiting for? Go build a relationship and habit with your mat! You've nothing to lose - and MASSES to gain!
One of my teachers recently put it like this: Linking yoga to our breathing is what makes yoga yoga.
It's so true. In yoga, breathing is as important as the poses themselves. In most other forms of exercise we rarely consciously think of or try to control our breathing, but here's 10 good reasons why focusing on your breahting can make you feel so much better.
So the next time you practise - remember to focus on your breathing! It'll do you the power of good!
Yes it can!
Almost 3 weeks ago I took a tumble - a pretty undignified one at that! Feet slid from under me on a wet floor and I landed smack on my bum with a whack which almost brought tears to my eyes.
First couple of days afterwards I actually thought I'd gotten away pretty lightly - and then the pain hit. Sometimes it was bearable - and I thought it was getting better but then two weeks in and I woke up to find I could hardly walk. Simply putting pressure on my feet sent sharp pains around my buttocks.
Some yoga teacher eh?! When I can hardly walk!
But I know enough to know that whilst you may have to reduce the intensity of movement you make when injured, to stop moving is only going to make things worse. You'll stiffen up even more - and the muscles will lose their strength and elasticity.
So - my yoga routine had to change - and on my GP's advice I took stronger pain killers which would allow me to gently move the affected areas. My vigorous salute to the sun and morning routine has been replaced with more restorative and gentle stretches and which actually feel really good; easing the stiffness and relaxing the tension in the muscles which so often accompanies pain. My pain is lessening, my flexibility is gradually returning - and more importantly, I'm feeling much less stressed and tense. That gentle, but consistent practice is helping me return to normal so much faster.
It's been a timely reminder as I teach my students, of these key lessons:
It's been a really useful reminder to me that losing your mobility is one of the most frustrating and debilitating experiences we can have. Added to that, living with pain can be draining. Whether the pain and lack of mobility is a result of an injury, like mine, or another condition, learning how to take control and improve how you feel can only be a good thing.
My GP said - whatever I did, not to stop my yoga! (No chance of that!)
Whether yours is an acute condition or something more chronic - building even 10 minutes a day of gentle yoga stretches into your day can make a significant difference to how you feel.
So - what are you waiting for?! When will you do your 10 minutes?
(To find out more about restorative yoga poses and how to design a short sequence which is right for you - why not come along to one the new classes? We're just getting off the ground - but the Cantley class is almost full - likely to need to add another class soon! - and the Intake class is growing. If you're not in those areas - but you'd like to see a class in your area - do get in touch. I'd love to hear from you. Let's start a yoga revolution in Doncaster!)
Thanks to a good friend and fellow yoga teacher who saw this article and sent through to me!
Whilst we're not running specific therapeutic yoga classes just yet (watch out for news later in the year on this one!) anyone who has more severe mobility problems can still do yoga!
Take a look at this article:
http://www.sparkpeople.com/resource/fitness_articles.asp?id=1822#_a5y_p%3D2363643
Have you listened to "I lived" by One Republic? If you haven't - take a moment to watch this inspirational video which goes with the song.
"Hope when you take that jump - you don't fear the fall"
"Hope that you spend your days - but they all add up"
Fabulous!
This will be the theme for Yoga over 45.......and for me!
Whatever your new year resolutions - here's to living!
Wonderful TED talk.
Shown this video on our yoga teacher training - this lady's moving, inspiring and interesting research on what makes us happier. Grab a coffee and enjoy!
"Take care of your body. It's the only place you have to live."
From the late Jim Rohn.
December 2014 - Ibiza yoga Teacher Training
My home for 16 days renewing my skills as a yoga teacher.
High up in the mountains of Ibiza, this secluded villa became my home for 16 days. Thirteen individuals, from all over the world, together with two teachers, all committed to understanding how to improve our own ability both as students and future teachers of yoga.
A rich and sometimes emotional journey, the experience has reminded me why yoga has been a part of my life for almost 40 years, and why I have an urge to spread the word to others about the benefits it can bring, especially as we age.
Your age is your age - right? And you can do nothing about it?
Wrong!
I learned some time ago we actually have 3 aqes - and two of them are most definitely under your control.
Your chronological age:
Your chronological age is the age on your birth certificate. You have no influence over that and you certainly can't change it. (Although some of us might be tempted to get a little economical with the truth sometimes!)
The trouble is, this really doesn't give us an accurate reflection of our age.
Do you know people in their eighties who have the energy and fitness of someone 20 years younger?
Or perhaps you know people in their forties who look and behave 20 years older - and are plagued with health issues which make them seem older too?
Chronological age is not a good indicator for defining who you are. However, the next two indicators are.
Your biological age:
This is the age of your body's systems, like our lungs, liver and heart.
Is it possible for an eighty year old to have better lung capacity than a 40 year old? Yes - particularly if the forty year old smokes.
Or what about someone who drinks too much alcohol - do you think their liver might be in worse shape far sooner than someone who drinks in moderation?
Absolutely!
You have the ability to directly influence your biological age every day.
Your attitudinal age;
I've met "young" 80 year olds - and "old" 20 year olds in my time.
Age is an attitude!Maybe there is some truth in the saying "You're as old as you feel!"
How you approach life can make a massive difference to how you are perceived, and how you feel.
What could you to control and influence your biological and attitudinal age?
In just one weeks time I'll be in Ibiza - (No, not to party! Believe it or not Ibiza seems to shut down for December! Clearly the revellers who arrive in their droves in the summer months think it's too cold to party so the airlines simply stop going there!!)
No - I'm going to Ibiza to refresh my yoga teacher training and to begin the process of up-skilling in the more recent field of therapeutic yoga so I can support people with more serious medical conditions such as cancer or arthritis.
Now I'm no spring chicken! There's been a lot of water gone under the bridge and a number of major career changes and personal crises which have peppered my 62 years - but I'm still standing! Actually, my fitness level could give my two children a run for their money - not that I'm competitive of course you understand!
I believe a large factor in my maintaining good health is down to regular yoga practise for the last 40+ years.
I first began teaching yoga in my twenties - and whilst I stopped teaching for the next 3 decades I still practised regularly. I'm a total convert - and I'd like to show others how it can help them continue to live life to the full, regardless of the date on your birth certificate.
My belief? Ageing is inevitable - how we handle it isn't!
The so called baby boomer generation of which I am one has led the way to changing expectations of what we look like and what we can achieve at 60 and beyond. We still have lots of things we want to do and goals we want to set: places we want to see; grandchildren we want to be fit enough to spend time with; new hobbies or interests we want to pursue and just having a darned good time! Retiring is no longer about slowing down.
Hitting mid life is often a watershed too - and an opportunity to set new goals.
For many hitting 45 is a time for re-evaluating how we're spending our time; realising there 's more to life than work or becoming aware age is creeping up on us, the big 50 is round the corner, and wanting to ensure we make the most of our lives.
That reflection often leads us to make significant changes to how we live, and to setting new goals we want to make sure we achieve.
There's nothing more likely to put a hold on our goals than health problems.
In our twenties and even thirties we probably didn't think too much about our health - it's easy to feel immortal at that age! But neglect or abuse a car for too long and you're likely to require more than an MOT to run effectively. It's no different with our bodies. I don't want to end up unable to tick those things off my bucket list because my body lets me down.
That's why I'm doing this yoga training - first and foremost for me. I already know it works - I want to know more! But most of all I want to be able to share this really useful approach with as many others as I can - so more people benefit - and achieve their goals!
Studies show that when we make our goals public we are more likely to be committed to making them happen - so here goes my public statement!
So here's my goals:
Any encouragement, advice or support is welcomed! Please join me on my journey.
What are your goals?